Author Archives: Cassandre Dayne

About Cassandre Dayne

Cassandre Dayne and DH Black are the pseudo's for the best selling author of erotic and paranormal romance, crime thrillers and horror novels

Discipline and Domination…Servitude and Submission

I was inspired to write this blog for a couple of reasons. One, I had a lovely reader mention she was fearful her Dom was taking her good natured desires to please him in various ways for granted. Two, John … Continue reading

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Discipline and Domination…Challenging

Do you think a man is born a Dom? Are his tendencies there from the beginning? Good questions I think. I’ve talked with John Patrick about his thoughts. I’m his first D/s relationship and while I’ve shared some aspect before, … Continue reading

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The Art of a Hard Spanking…Dealing With Anger and Frustration

I know, I mentioned the last blog in the series was indeed the last, but a topic just burned to be discussed – anger and frustration. John Patrick and I discussed this just yesterday in some detail. Why? Well, we’ve … Continue reading

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The Art of a Hard Spanking…The One Thing…

Did you ever hear the line from a very famous movie ‘There’s just one thing’? What does that mean? Well, in City Slickers (yep, I am dating myself here) Billy Crystal made certain his buddies knew the one thing that … Continue reading

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The Art of a Hard Spanking…Balance and Whipping More than Just…

Spanking… How hard can your ass take the strike of a belt? What do you think about when you hear the single word? Well I think for the majority of people, we think about children misbehaving. Even then, spanking our … Continue reading

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The Art of a Hard Spanking…Are Discipline Spankings Going Too Far?

I’ve touched on this before but I had a wonderful conversation on my blog talk radio show yesterday, which really brought this back to the forefront. For those of you who don’t know, I host a radio show every other … Continue reading

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The Art of a Hard Spanking…Holding Your Position

Let me tell you, I had no idea about the understanding of the three little words – “Hold Your Position” until I found myself unable to do so. No matter what you think, when someone is whipping your ass, back, … Continue reading

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