Author Archives: Cassandre Dayne

About Cassandre Dayne

Cassandre Dayne and DH Black are the pseudo's for the best selling author of erotic and paranormal romance, crime thrillers and horror novels

Living in a D/s Relationship…Full Time

Within a D/s relationship there are many dynamics. Couples often find themselves in a quandary bridging the vanilla lifestyle with what some feel to be a very powerful alternative method. We’ve talked about various aspects of co-mingling various parameters such … Continue reading

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Interview With a Dom and His Willing Submissive…

As my readers know, John Patrick and I have been exploring what we consider to be an incredible D/s journey. We’re relatively new to the lifestyle and find the way we’re learning together and growing is something amazing, unexpected for … Continue reading

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So You Long to Become a Submissive… WTF?

Did the title catch your attention? Imagine how difficult telling your husband or wife that you really would like to become a submissive, that you’ve had the tendencies for years. Both men and women crave being the submissive in the … Continue reading

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Respect in a Dominant/submissive Lifestyle

Admiration, Esteem, Revere – these are words often used in place of respect. They are powerful words, those that can evoke deep emotions. There are various forms of respect that you give, learn, care about or share. Within D/s, respect … Continue reading

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A Dom’s POV…Talking With Other Dom’s

I had a long chat with John Patrick today and as you’ve heard me say many times, he and I can talk about anything. We hold nothing back. Well, that’s true until recently. We were having a very pointed conversation … Continue reading

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A Submissive Revealed

I’m often asked how I knew I was submissive and when did I admit and to whom. I had a wonderful reader ask me a great question as well. He mentioned his wife had recently revealed she desires to become … Continue reading

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Why Do Women Crave Spankings?

I have to admit I grabbed this title straight off the top search engines that are occurring on WordPress right now. Today. That along with ‘the ways to become a slave’. I thought I’d tackle the spanking question. Do spankings … Continue reading

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