A quickie tonight my yummy followers but I was penning a couple of other hot pieces and it got me to thinking – why are we all hiding behind our cravings sexually? Hmmm… I not only pen pieces in my book about everything from BDSM and vanilla spanking to sex clubs that cater to every aspect of and menage to group sex. I’m not careless or risky in my writing – we’re talking about either committed relationships or situations where testing and the use of condoms is involved but I allow my mind to wander and dream – and yes fantasize.
I also write articles and guest blogs all over the place – I think the term is an internet slut – true phrasing. Writers have to market constantly. I do copious amounts of research to try and get aspects of a genre or culture right in my writing so I’m going to talk to Dom’s/Domme’s and subs and people who own sex clubs. I also talk to the every day man and woman who fantasizes at night and they’re terrified to tell their partner they crave a bit of spanking or long to watch an “x” rated flick with their partner.
Why? Do you think God is going to come down on all of us or is there something in society that gives the kink lover buried deep within us a label? I’ll admit humans LOVE to make fun of what they don’t understand certainly something they can get behind and laugh with all their buddies about. It’s sad to me. Sex, eroticism and passion go hand in hand. Or they should.
I want to challenge all of you to either tell your partner some dark desire tonight or a friend perhaps on Facebook. Hell, we can all be anyone we choose to be behind internet lines so fess up you crave a sound belt whipping or an unlimited spending amount to purchase your ass plugs, nipple clamps and floggers. Come on – you know you want to.
I’m not making fun of people who are apprehensive but I do believe that more relationships whether marriage, dating, same sex or a huge extended sexual family would honestly stay together more often IF they didn’t keep their raging desires so secret. I explore and learn every day for my writing mostly, yes but what my exploration has shown me is that I’m a very passionate woman and I CRAVE. I crave things some of you might consider weird or throw your hand over your mouth and cringe.
But don’t we all? Every one of us has that one thing – you know like from City Slickers – that we would try if we were in a safe place with those who wouldn’t make fun of us. There are safety nets out there so while you’re pushing your wanton thoughts aside and snagging the last issue of Playgirl or Penthouse (you know magazines that have been around longer than God?) reading it cover to cover behind closed door and then shoving the naughty piece in your dresser – that a huge portion of society hunger for what you do.
Own up to it, enjoy and embrace. You might just find yourself waking up with a smile on your face.
Hope I gave you some naughty ideas…