Do Guys Like Sexy Lingerie?

Oh come on ladies! You know the answer to that question, right? I’ve actually seen it posted lately from some women who are asking the question and then they even go further to question why anyone would pay as much as $50 for a bra. Hmmm… Would you? Okay, I have to be budget conscience just like the rest of us and long gone are the days that I just go out and buy whatever little sexy dress or teddy I want but…that’s really not true. I do spend on me. I might do it a bit wisely but I do. I enjoy finding the right color – red happens to be my favorite. I enjoy feeling beautiful. Let’s face it, living is tough and as we get older whether you’re women or men you want to feel sexy, right? I know I do for God’s sake. I was and never will be the sweat pant kind of girl and when I got together with my very first boyfriend I promised him no sweat pants – unless I’m exercising. Don’t roll your eyes ladies. That’s just what I decided. I look better in sexy dresses than I do jeans. Just my body shape but we’re all different. I love mixing it up and being very sensuous and I honestly think men do as well. Come on guys fess up for me.

I also purchase sexy lingerie not just for him but for ME. And you know what? I think that’s sexy as hell. You’ve heard me talk a lot about and I put into many of my books something about buying a naughty from Victoria’s Secret. The truth is I purchase also all my sexy little outfits from there. I’m not 20 any longer and certain things don’t look good but I know my body. For those of you in other countries – google the location. You can’t buy the clothes in their stores but we are LUCKY enough to have them in the States. You can go in and purchase everything from a naughty thong collection to the perfect push up bra, sexy lingerie and even perfume and make up. Going into the store for me is almost a moment of rapture. From the scents to the helpful store clerks and the lovely music playing, it’s just a wonderful experience. I have a snazzy black credit card just for them and boy it burns. There is something about coming home to the sexy package waiting for me and I go – YES.

And yes some of the items are pricy but some are on sale ladies. For me there’s nothing better than matching your bra and panties and whether they’re made of silk, satin or lace, having them on under everything from a sexy dress to jeans and a tee shirt just help me feel down right naughty – and very feminine. For the men who might read this you might think – why does it matter? But then I can guarantee you’re going to be ogling the pictures I’m putting on here so you tell me – does it matter? Wouldn’t you prefer to see your lady in something other than flannel? Be honest.

I selected a few pictures from the website to entice the ladies and the men. Think of the perfect Christmas or birthday gift for your lady, or perhaps it’s just because. We all love sexy surprises. Now imagine her eyes when she opens up one of these babies. Don’t you think you just might win points for your effort? They have a great return policy but if you don’t know your lady’s size, oh baby you are in some kind of trouble. Snoop is the answer. And you know where she keeps her saucy bits of lace.

I learned a long time ago and I needed to feel sexy for me first or I could never feel good sexually with a man. We have limited time in our relationships or we’re single and trying to not only feel good about ourselves but also lure a lover. Don’t we all want to have a lover or two? All kidding aside here – we either read, write, dream about, fantasize or long for a lover. And there’s nothing wrong with that of course. But how are you going to put yourself out there if you don’t feel feminine or sexy or desirable? Victoria’s Secret isn’t the only place to buy something wonderful. Even your department stores wherever you are in the world have them but for goodness sakes consider buying a treat for YOU for this upcoming holiday season or just because.

I always do. Guys, you can really make a hit this year if you consider purchasing something outside of your comfort zone. You don’t have to go into to stores even. Think about it. Online discrete ordering. The packages come in hot pink tissue paper and you can even have them gift-wrapped. If you’re truly a BIG spender, they have a fantasy collection where you can spend over a million dollars on a bra alone. I know…I laughed out loud too.

And for you gentlemen in a same sex relationship – you know there are places you can purchase the sexy silk boxers or tight crimson thongs just for him. How about a silky robe you can push off his shoulders and allow gravity to take it to the floor? It’s the holiday season. Doesn’t that give you more than once idea of being on the naughty list for Santa? Who wants to be good anyway?

The holidays are right around the corner and you’re going to have to think about something sexy to get your gal or your guy. Now I’m the kind who wants to be under the tree with a tiny bit on to be unwrapped, but that’s just me. I put together a sexy piece called Unwrap Me with this very thought in mind. I’ll give you a taste of the synopsis too so you can plan really far in advance. So you ready to try out Victoria’s Secret for me? Think of it – you purchase something sultry and imagine how long the bit of lace or silk will be on him or her. Hopefully not long. But just think guys – she owns the lovely piece and you can do this all over again…

A shameless plug in case you guys aren’t sure…

I hope I gave you some wicked ideas. Make it downright naughty and adventurous this weekend – you know you want to.

Kisses   xxx



Cristal Collier was hungry for a man, but her cheating ex husband had left her for a blond twenty-something vixen and her self-esteem was shot. Her friends were tired of putting up with her hiding in the dark confines of her home and were determined to ignite a fire. During a sinful Christmas party, a naughty rouse was put to the test and her best friend Wendy knew exactly how to jump start Cristal’s love life, or at least garner her a wicked tryst. She knew her brother was Cristal’s secret fantasy and one she refused to explore. During the sinful white elephant gift exchange, the cards were stacked.

Thorne Mitchell was sixteen years her junior and had a serious crush on the stunning copper haired beauty. After a shared kiss years before, she had pushed him out of her life and he had fled the state. Now, he was bound and determined not only to seduce her, but also win her heart. After engaging in a shameless round of sex including a moment in front of their friends, she refused to see him again. Planning a scintillating game of his own, he pulled out every stop, but Cristal couldn’t take the heat. As an early snowfall blanketed the twinkling lights of Baltimore, he finally gave up, going home to soothe his soul. He knew Santa Claus wasn’t coming to his house that year. Would he ever be able to unwrap the precious gift again?

About Cassandre Dayne

Cassandre Dayne is the pseudo for the best selling author of romantic suspense and thrillers
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