Gettin’ Kinky

Just what does kinky mean to you? I have many thoughts, as you might be able to imagine. Being kinky gives me as a woman and as a write so many delicious thoughts. I am often asked as an erotic romance author if I am as kinky as I portray with all my delicious little characters. The truth is…I’m not telling!  That being said, I think that all of us carry a bit of the naughty inside just begging to get out. Whether you are in a long term marriage, a brand new relationship or simply playing the field, you enjoy feeling that moment of wicked heat don’t you? You know what I mean, that wonderful tingle of apprehension and anticipation that sends a series of shivers chocolate and man lickingdancing down your spine. That can be because of a look across the room or something a bit more out of the ordinary.

Now, you and I know that we can all get into a rut with our love lives because of work and children and everyday chores that we have to do. However, that doesn’t mean you aren’t craving an experience that’s out of the ordinary. If you had a wonderful moment where you could do something a touch kinky, would you do it? Let’s explore some of the ideas from mildly tame to a bit racy. Let your imagination go. Indulge in the dark side of need we all have. Come on…

A Slather of Jam & A Taste of Honey

Envision a time alone as you are lounging in front of the fire with soft strains of jazz guitar playing behind you and you have set out a carpet picnic complete with fruits, cheeses, jams and some rich wines. Imagine bending him down onto the soft pelt and wrapping a scarf around his eyes, brushing your lips across his as you dart your tongue just inside. Then take a sip of wine and bend over carefully, allowing a trickle to slide into his mouth. Remind him that there will no touching or you’ll have to tie him up. And while he struggles to comply, you gaze a long languishing trail down the length of his body. Slowly open a jar of raspberry jam and slather a long slow trail down from the edge of his carved chin all the way to the top of his pelvis. Where else you might allow your fingers to go is entirely up to you. As you dart your tongue out to lick up and down the heat of his body, you begin to give him the idea of what else might be in store for the night… Just as he purrs that he can’t take it any longer, you apple & Snakedrizzle honey across the seam of his mouth.

Give Him A Saucy Present He Won’t Soon Forget

Strategically hide a red foil bag in his car so that he won’t find it until he’s leaving work for home. At first he’ll find the crisp white linen written in scarlet lettering of where to stop and buy your favorite bottle of wine and the other instructions will be very clear. At every naughty stop on the way, you’ll allow him to open a gift – tiny pair of crimson lace thongs, a bottle of massage oil, a brand spanking new studded vibrator and last but not least, a flogger. Can you imagine the state he’ll be in when he comes through the door finding you in nothing but a big fluffy towel.

Give Him a Lunch He Soon Won’t Forget…

Imagine showing up at his place of employment wearing a lacy bra and panties, stocking and stilettos all wrapped up by a coat and nothing else. You slip inside and lock his office door when he least expects it, sashay over to his desk and just when he figures out you are there, you drop your coat, giving him a mid morning break. You proceed to glide around the other side, kicking his feet apart and lowering down onto his lap where the first wicked chore will be to give him the lap dance of his dreams. a taste before the partyPerhaps when he’s all hot and bothered, you’ll drop down to your knees and tease him just a bit…

Don’t Be Shy – Show Off What You Got

Now this one might not be for everyone but imagine a darkened bar with four of your hunk’s closest friends playing pool and you decide to kick up the heat and tease. Just imagine what your guy might do. There is nothing wrong with showing him all of you. I think we all love a taste of voyeurism. We all have some innate desire to taste a bit of the unknown so why not flash him in public. Even if you are a bit more vanilla laced, you can do a simple act like not wearing panties as you go to dinner. Can you imagine the excitement when you tell him you’re not wearing underwear? I know men pretty well and they will want nothing more than to taste. If you allow yourself to truly move to a bit kinkier – have him taste you inside the restaurant restroom.

Get Dangerous

That doesn’t have to mean something that is law breaking. But then again… In other words move outside your comfort zone. It’s almost the holidays and for me it’s a time I think about tasting outside the box – and yes I do mean tasting. I write about all things kinky. I enjoy allowing my couples to do more than just something outrageous. Are there kink clubs in town? No matter how large or small of a city, my guess is there is one. You can easily hunt on the Internet and find several places. Are you afraid to go? Are you afraid to try? Well, they are safe. So why not try one? They are safe and well attended. They are also very well maintained and don’t take any funny business. They have educational classes and meet in secure locations. They range from fairly vanilla to anything goes and you can try every aspect of BDSM you feel hungry and comfortable with. Doesn’t that sound like fun?  Mmm…

There is nothing wrong with getting a bit kinky or with wanting to heat up your relationship. It’s the weekend. Do something saucy and enjoy.

Kisses   xxx

Cassandre

About Cassandre Dayne

Cassandre Dayne is the pseudo for the best selling author of romantic suspense and thrillers
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2 Responses to Gettin’ Kinky

  1. Thamyris says:

    Mmmmmm, I am in agreement completely.

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