I seem to be on this kick of not only writing about indulging in passions in several uninhibited manners but also craving them. I think all of us at times want to spice up our love life or create a new one. I have to admit I’m in such a mood to do something kinky. I was thinking about all the ways we can stretch our boundaries a little bit. For me it’s allowing yourself to push to the extremes. There are many subtle ways like a bit of groping or kissing in public, but I want to go beyond the simplistic to a daring mode. I allow my characters to be dashing and daring and take a spin on the wild side. I think my readers enjoy living life vicariously through their eyes. Never are my heroes or heroines dull. So here goes for today. What about texting your lover tonight and not asking but your lover you’re going out on a date. Granted, this concept might be better in warm weather, but imagine with me here.
I love when a man tells me what to do. It’s not about requesting. His methods are bold, blunt and demanding. Mmm… So he tells you to be ready at a particular time, slide into a slinky dress and you won’t be wearing any underwear. Aren’t you tingling at the thought? When he arrives he slips his hand under your dress to make certain you followed directions, then you’re off. Where to? A drive in movie.
Don’t you dare say I’m dating myself! For those of you who have no clue what a drive in movie is – it’s something I grew up with as a kid. You take a piece of land far away from the screaming lights of the city and plop a HUGE screen on one end and a flat fields stretching for a good half an acre or more and then place concession stands around it with bathrooms. The projector is on the other side and in the privacy of your car (along with specially designed speakers you place on the door/open window) you get to watch a HOT movie.
When I was a kid it was all the epics playing – you know like Poseidon Adventure and Towering Inferno. Somehow the movie SEEMED bigger than life in the great outdoors. If you had a convertible then it was even better. I loved it and granted I went when I was with my parents – UGH – but I was able to see and hear all kinds of “making out” from across the way.
I’ll never forget the look on my mother’s face when I asked her what was going on with the couple in the car smack next to us. Someone the moaning and groaning didn’t quite go with the music of the movie. As you can well imagine the necking the teenagers were doing was tame in comparison to what they’re doing today but it was Friday night date night and all the most fashionable kids were there. Have I ever done it? Taking the fifth on this one.
About ten years ago the big screens and outdoor theatres made a come back but sadly they didn’t survive for several reasons. Not only is it tougher to find land surrounded by darkness unless you’re in a very rural area but you also have to contend with what folks are now used to. I mean my GOD you can go into closed theatres today and basically have a massage snuggled in your seats while you enjoy sipping on wine and eating everything from hamburgers to freshly caught salmon.
I’m not knocking indoor theatres but for me there’s no romance. How romantic is it to be crowded next to Mary and Sam who talk through the entire thing? For many who have money projectors and large screens have been sold over the last few years to turn your backyard into a movie theatre. Bring all your friends over for a wildly good time. Not sure that’s very romantic either.
But let’s set the scene for a seductive moment both ways. One – imagine if the drive in theatre was still open. Envision just you and your lover snuggled together under the moonlight kissing during the romantic scenes where James Bond is always THAT man and savior we all crave or he has his arm wrapped around your tightly when the bad guys are pulling out the really big guns. Don’t chuckle. You know you’ve snuggled up to a lover more than once during a terrifying horror movie. Our personal saviors really can keep you safe you know.
Close your eyes and hear the opening credit music playing while a light wind is whipping through your hair. Imagine the musky scent of your lover mixed with the fresh and buttery smell of popcorn and then the night fragrances such as night blooming jasmine – isn’t this a lovely romantic scene in the making? Now imagine his directed words as he tells you to open your legs and push your dress up. Can you just imagine the series of sensations that roar through your body as his hand finds your hot spot, fingering your pussy? You’ll try not to flinch, not to make a sound as his fingers drive inside, pulsing in and out. Can you just see the smile on his face? You move to the edge of the seat and rest your head, your nipples hardening as he continues to drive you close to nirvana. He tells you in no uncertain terms to stroke him and while you may fiddle to unfasten his belt, button and zipper, you finally are able to free his thick cock. He might bring you close to orgasm then stop, wrapping his hand around the back of your neck as he gives you that look. I can almost taste the muskiness of his cock as you take his shaft all the way down. Are you hot and hard or wet yet? I am… What if he has you sit on his lap, his dick easing deep inside and he simply holds you there for the rest of the movie, tempting and teasing. My oh my.
I can only imagine going home after the movie as you continue to snuggle close on the drive and then cracking open a bottle of wine in front of the fire. Think about how horny you’d be, how much you’d hunger for each other. The sex just might be the best of your life. There are so many ways to spice up a book or a relationship. I think couples forget the simple aspects.
What if you did own a home movie theatre system? Think about how fabulous it would be if you owned a hot tub and simply settled in to the warmth, cutting down the jets, with a bottle of wine or champagne and the dazzling lights of the tub shimmering underneath you while you watch a romantic comedy together. Look up at the brightly shining stars and the almost full moon. There’s a light chill in the air so when you get out of the tub you wrap your bodies in soft terry robes.
Even if you simply sit on your deck perhaps with an umbrella over your table with sparkly lights illuminating your drinks as you settle in to watch the latest Underworld movie – it’s all in how you create the setting. From candles wafting scents of vanilla and cinnamon to festive drinks or hot chocolate – you determine just how far you want to take the romance.
Are drive in movie theatres dead? Oh I so hope they make a come back. There’s nothing quite like making out like we were when we were kids to remind us all about passion and romance. Answer me this… Where are you going to watch your next movie together? I hope you’ve enjoyed.
Kisses and spanks…