Monthly Archives: February 2014

Sinspiration

Posted on February 28, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Yes, that’s a word in my worlds. What – you’ve never heard of it before? Come on. Take inspiration in the way of pictures or words, poetry or television, music or movies – then move them toward the sensual bent … Continue reading →

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Submitting to a Spanking…the Essence of Control

Posted on February 27, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Following the rules. That’s a tougher concept than people realize. I’ve been struggling with the single idea since I realized I’m a submissive at heart. I just don’t follow certain rules very well. Now don’t get me wrong. I play … Continue reading →

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Submitting to a Spanking…A Method of Control

Posted on February 25, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Let me just say first of all a belt hurts like *&^$. Yep. I can’t hide the fact or lie about what happens when you’re spanked like a bad girl. The leather slapping against naked skin makes you whimper and … Continue reading →

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Submitting to a Spanking…Controlled Hunger

Posted on February 23, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

What do I mean by controlled hunger? Well, the notion is moving probably more into a D/s relationship versus a DD but then again, as I’ve mentioned many times, every relationship is different. Control is a part of every aspect … Continue reading →

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Savoring a Dirty Little Lunch

Posted on February 22, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Mmm – you know how I like all things dirty and kinky. Right? Well, I penned a sexy little collection a couple years ago that did well. Think about having a wicked tryst in the middle of the afternoon? Imagine … Continue reading →

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Submitting to a Spanking…Understanding the Darkness

Posted on February 21, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

I titled this blog with the word ‘understanding’ on purpose. I think for anyone who indulges in or shares a D/s lifestyle with another, they have to first understand their needs as well as those of their partner. Understanding is … Continue reading →

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Submitting to a Spanking…Inviting the Darkness

Posted on February 19, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

There’s something about the darkness, the way the shadows play across the sky and even across my skin. We’ve all been in darkened clubs, the kinds with pulsing energy and shimmering lights in the most ominous shades. We undulate as … Continue reading →

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Submitting to a Spanking…Embracing the Darkness

Posted on February 16, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Yes, you must embrace the darkness around you, learn to love the way the unknown makes you feel.  I absolutely loved the beginning of my story about a kink club. I hadn’t really thought about going to one for a … Continue reading →

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Submitting to a Spanking…Sharing the Darkness

Posted on February 15, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

I know the title is a bit ‘dark’ eh?  Well, I do see a darker side to kink as well as spankings. I’ve said before that there is no difference in the fact that D/s couples have various aspects of … Continue reading →

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Submitting to a Spanking…Honoring His Belt

Posted on February 14, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Love and honor. We can find love in many ways, can’t we? Honor can mean many things in our lives. On this special romantic period of time, one meant for lovers, love does indeed come in many forms. You can … Continue reading →

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