Spanking Implements…A Few of My Favorite Things

Spanking… The word alone sends tingles down the length of my body, affecting everything. Mmm… You know what I mean. As I mentioned before, I have a delicious spanking story that’s now on pre-order and I issued a post on Facebook last night. I asked what is the favorite implement when giving or receiving a spanking. While I wasn’t surprised at the various implements suggested, I was at a couple of the people who answered. For me as an author, blogger and spankee, I know very easily who appreciates the concept of discipline, whether occasionally or practiced on a regular basis in a domestic discipline situation.

Of course many couples ‘spank’ in the bedroom, but you realize from all of myCraig's Belt spanking blogs, I consider that more foreplay than anything. I was looking at my statistics from all the spanking blogs I’ve done over the last couple of years. The ones that seem to be the most popular have to do with talking about whips and floggers, paddles and canes. Since I asked the question on Facebook, I thought I’m combine many of the delicious things you could use to spank with. John Patrick and I both have our favorites. Well, at least at this point. Mine has to be his belt, since that was the very first implement used to spank me.

There’s something very intimate about the understanding he wears the belt almost every day. Mmm… Giving me shivers just thinking about it. For him, the quirt is very special indeed. I can tell you that WOW the horsewhip hurts like hell. What’s interesting is the first time he used the delicious leather piece, I was able to still, hold my position. I was in a basement setting with my hands wrapped around a pole and told to remain unmoving. Well, of course I flinched and moaned, but I think I did pretty well. He didn’t give me but so many strikes, since we both weren’t used to the implement, but I was punished, trust me.

The second time I was all over the place wiggling, whimpering. The third time I was lying across a bank of pillows, my ass in the air, and my GOD I screamed and couldn’t hold my position and you bet I begged. We talked about my reaction afterwards, wondering why the whipping seemed to hurt so much more. I honestly have no idea. I simply know that particular spanking I’ll remember for a LONG time to come. I’ve often said the anticipation of a spanking truly does matter and when he tells me I’m going to receive one, of course my mind works overtime.

I think that’s a huge part of discipline, what makes the moment shared special, intimate and in truth, more painful. Women think too much, John Patrick groans every time he tells me that. Yes, I do and Quirtsometimes there are legitimate reasons but other times we’re just being women. The re-focusing thing I keep talking about comes into play here.

So let’s talk about various implements used. You don’t have to purchase high dollar toys or floggers in order to achieve the punishment needed. Nope. You can go as far as your closet or the kitchen and find everything you’re looking for. Let’s get started.


There is nothing like flesh against flesh and I think that’s why so many men love the idea. Taking a woman over their knee, exposing their naked ass and issuing a hard spanking with their hand is very intimate. You don’t need to ‘find’ something to use, you simply have one right there literally at your fingertips. Whether you’re at home or in the car in the parking lot of Target, when a spanking is needed, there you go. John Patrick didn’t think he’d like at first, but loved the feeling of absolute control. Plus, the sting is incredible.


Oh the dreaded hairbrush – wooden for me is the best. Why? There is nothing like the hard thudding against your backside to remind you that you’ve been a bad girl. The marks and welts left are quite incredible, and you can store one almost anywhere in case a moment of punishment is needed. The brush is the perfect implement to keep in a glove compartment and of course on a trip, the majority of women have one in their suitcase. This is another effective piece used when over his knee or lying across a bank of pillows.


There are all kinds of paddles that can be used. From the basic table tennis to ones especially made with spankings in mind, various hard woods are used for maximum pain. One of the comments on Facebook was about a paddle designed to place a mark, the Domme’s name, on her submissive’s ass. Imagine. I shudder at the amount of force used to place that brand. Very effective in making certain rules are followed.


Again, my personal favorite. When John Patrick unfastened his belt or asked me to, I quivered all over. The anticipation alone, knowing the discipline is going to be harsh, is truly something that messes with your mind. Whether it’s double looped and used over his knee or when he had me standing, holding a pole or over the bed, the whooshing sound alone created tremors deep within my psyche. The sting is incredible and the marks left leave no doubt why you receive a spanking. The first day this was used, I will never forget and neither will he.


You can find various treats in your very own kitchen to use. Let’s look at a couple.


While few might think this is very effective, the rubber spatula can give a sharp wallop in a short period of time. You can whip one out, have your lady bend over the kitchen table, and issue thirty or so smacks against her ass and she’ll remember she didn’t do her chores or forgot to tell you where she was going. Then as you return to making dinner, using the very spatula, she’ll be reminded for a few minutes what might happen if she’s not a good girl.


This is very similar to the spatula and while I’ve never been spanked with one, from what I hear, the simple but hard strikes are memorable. I purchased a set of them for John Patrick’s birthday and he initially looked at me funny then grinned. They remain in his bag of ‘tricks’ as I call them. To be used one day.


Talk about a paddle kids. My, oh my, the dense woods used in creating a cutting board can make for a very harsh spanking paddle. I can still hear the sound as he practiced with a very small one, but oh so effective.

See how creative you can be in the kitchen?


These might cross the line into being more about BDSM, but for anyone who practices domestic discipline to any degree, at least a couple are in the bag of implements. Let’s look at a favorite few.


The concept of a flogger actually comes in several varieties and there are Carpet Beatercompanies who make dozens including the cattail, single strand, multiple strand, long and short. The styles are endless and you can have them especially made for you. John Patrick owns a couple and you wouldn’t imagine the rather flimsy leather strands could inflict as much anguish as they do. WHEW – you’re wrong.


The favorite of John Patrick. I had to read about this and the leather style flogger is used for controlling horses. When I held the implement in my hand, feeling the weight and the slender strap portion, I didn’t understand what the thing could do. Lordy is all I can say. This is something I would consider being used for a harsher punishment, for serious infractions. But highly effective and the welts left are colorful.


We’re not talking about a walking cane. Canes are made of everything from rattan to silicone and while they are usually designed the same way, long and thing, the effects vary. The traditional wooden cane bends and easy to maneuver. You don’t have to use much force to leave a stinging welt. Silicone canes are denser and act as a slender paddle. They hurt like hell. That’s all I can say.


While not necessarily used in BDSM practices, this is an implement worth noting. Imagine being directed to go out in your own yard to cut a switch. Then you have to watch as he trims off the bark, exposing the green wood inside. This is something that many will use on various parts of the body, slapping the back, legs, breasts, inner thighs and of course the buttocks. The marks don’t stay very long, but highly effective.


Yep, this is truly something used by professionals in the carpet industry. I can only describe this as an oversized flyswatter. I’ve never seen one up close and personal but have heard stories how the thing hurts like hell. I don’t know – very creative in my mind.

These are only a few of the items I’ve heard about or run across. Imagination is the key here. From slippers to flyswatters, acrylic to wood and Blond whipleather, there is enough to make certain she stays in line. As with any of these, the spanker needs to know how to use and what will happen when they do. Testing before using on your submissive or spouse is necessary. This is about inflicting pain, not serious harm.

Tell me, what’s your favorite method and implement? I’d love to know. I asked John Patrick this morning to give me just a thought about spankings. His comment was that I need one long, hard one soon since it helps the very willful girl I am. Go figure.

Kisses and spanks…



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About Cassandre Dayne

Cassandre Dayne is the pseudo for the best selling author of romantic suspense and thrillers
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2 Responses to Spanking Implements…A Few of My Favorite Things

  1. sixofthebest says:

    For me as my ‘nom de plume’ tells it all. The CANE is my favorite corporal punishment implement. I love its ‘Swish’ as it descends upon a woman’s bare derriere. Yes, for me its music to my ears.


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