Monthly Archives: March 2015

Continuing in a D/s Lifestyle…Dealing with Mental Anguish

Posted on March 28, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Is there anguish in a D/s relationship? Of course there is. I don’t know of any relationship in which one or the other partner doesn’t suffer from bouts of anxiety or actual moments of raw depression. I’ve talked about John … Continue reading →

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Beware the Night…

Posted on March 27, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I think everyone knows how much I adore creatures of the night. I was the kid who sat smack in front of the television watching Dark Shadows – yep dating myself. I was so young and had no idea what … Continue reading →

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Hiding in Plain Sight While Living in a D/s Relationship

Posted on March 25, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Do you hide portions of your life, even from yourself? Do you fear confiding in your best friend or lover about a secret desire, one he or she might think far too kinky or worse? I think we all do. … Continue reading →

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Submitting to a Spanking…When Visiting Family and Friends

Posted on March 22, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I had to laugh yesterday because I hadn’t paid any attention to my blog. Then mid afternoon I looked and went ‘holy shit!’ because the views of my blog had doubled. Of course on the various blog sites you can … Continue reading →

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Submitting to a Spanking…the Perfect Time

Posted on March 20, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Your behavior has been deplorable. I’m very disappointed in you. When I get home, I want you undressed, standing in the corner with your nose pressed to the wall, and several spanking implements on the table. Do you understand me? … Continue reading →

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Hiding Behind a Mask of Sin

Posted on March 19, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Do you think engaging in various acts of BDSM, longing to be whipped, or having a desire for someone other than your spouse is a sin? Do you crave one or all? Be honest. I know, you’d hide everything about … Continue reading →

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Opening Up to Others about a D/s Relationship

Posted on March 19, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Do you feel free about telling everyone what you enjoy, what you crave in your life? Do you feel confident enough letting everyone know who you really are? If you’re involved in a D/s relationship, have you told your family … Continue reading →

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The Hunt

Posted on March 16, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I seem to be in a rather dark and edgy place lately. There are various reasons why and for those of you who know me and have read the blogs, I think you have a general idea. When I’m stressed … Continue reading →

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Is the Need for BDSM or a D/s Relationship Innate or a Choice?

Posted on March 15, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

This is a very good question in my mind and a conversation I had with John Patrick the other day. He has pushed back against his “dark” needs twice now over the last few months and I had to stop … Continue reading →

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Believe in the Dark Man

Posted on March 14, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

What does that make you think? I am all about the dark side that dwells within all of us. We all have something buried deep within our souls, a hunger lurking, ready to take over at any moment. I often … Continue reading →

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