Tag Archives: Belting

Domination and Submission = Abuse??

Do NOT get me but so started with this. I am on a bit of a rant tonight about the entire concept. John Patrick copied a thread from a discussion on Fetlife and the ridiculousness created three hours of conversation. … Continue reading

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Discipline and Domination…Balance and Pain

Balance. You have to have balance in all things. John Patrick and I struggle with this every day separately and together. You try to fit in so many wonderful things smack in the middle of responsibilities and often the two … Continue reading

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Discipline and Domination…Vanilla and Control

Ah the word vanilla. Try using that one in a relationship – especially D/s. What does that single word alone make you think of? For me it means traditional. I think of things like equal and family oriented, non kinky … Continue reading

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Discipline and Domination…Servitude and Submission

I was inspired to write this blog for a couple of reasons. One, I had a lovely reader mention she was fearful her Dom was taking her good natured desires to please him in various ways for granted. Two, John … Continue reading

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Discipline and Domination…Challenging

Do you think a man is born a Dom? Are his tendencies there from the beginning? Good questions I think. I’ve talked with John Patrick about his thoughts. I’m his first D/s relationship and while I’ve shared some aspect before, … Continue reading

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The Art of a Hard Spanking…Dealing With Anger and Frustration

I know, I mentioned the last blog in the series was indeed the last, but a topic just burned to be discussed – anger and frustration. John Patrick and I discussed this just yesterday in some detail. Why? Well, we’ve … Continue reading

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The Art of a Hard Spanking…The One Thing…

Did you ever hear the line from a very famous movie ‘There’s just one thing’? What does that mean? Well, in City Slickers (yep, I am dating myself here) Billy Crystal made certain his buddies knew the one thing that … Continue reading

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The Art of a Hard Spanking…Are Discipline Spankings Going Too Far?

I’ve touched on this before but I had a wonderful conversation on my blog talk radio show yesterday, which really brought this back to the forefront. For those of you who don’t know, I host a radio show every other … Continue reading

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The Art of a Hard Spanking…Holding Your Position

Let me tell you, I had no idea about the understanding of the three little words – “Hold Your Position” until I found myself unable to do so. No matter what you think, when someone is whipping your ass, back, … Continue reading

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Spank Me…Just How Perfect Can a Spanking Be?

This one has been a long time coming. I wrote this piece in February 2013 after attending a sexy conference and for some very tasty reasons the idea just came to me. This is written as a partner to Spankdown … Continue reading

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