Tag Archives: Control

The Art of Control

Posted on April 2, 2016 by Cassandre Dayne

Control. What do you imagine when you think of the word and the meaning? What do you long for? Have you always wanted to take full control or succumb to letting go? Everyone is different. Intrinsic personal needs are something … Continue reading →

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Serving Her Master…the Effect of Social Media on the Relationship

Posted on October 25, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Social media is often the bane of my life. Yes, the culture is certainly here to stay, but I can tell you that the lack of direct human contact is often debilitating. We have so many sources out there to … Continue reading →

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A Man’s Journey into Becoming a Dominant…Trust

Posted on May 6, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Do you love your Dom or your submissive? You might adore them so much you can’t breathe and the joy in sharing the amazing journey becomes an incredible affirmation. I’m not certain I can place the experience into words. Love … Continue reading →

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Jealousy in D/s…Can You Control?

Posted on March 5, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I was teasing JP as usual and asked him what he wanted for his birthday. This was about a week ago. His response? A slave. Well, we laughed, joked about how this would work. His thoughts were that a house … Continue reading →

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A Dom’s Complex Needs in Sadism and Vanilla

Posted on February 23, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

The concept about abuse is still buzzing regarding the D/s and M/s community. I continue to cringe every time I read a rather stupid comment on Facebook. However, I realize the Fifty Shades movie shows you one side of a … Continue reading →

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My Special Guest – Tonya Kinzer

Posted on February 14, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I’m so happy to have this lovely lady on my blog. She’s been a great friend in this sometimes wretched business. I adore her work as well and today, on this very special day of love, you get a taste … Continue reading →

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Sexual Sin – Penance

Posted on February 13, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Well, this is my 1000th blog. I have to say I’m shocked I’ve written so many. Much like my books, you can tell I’m prolific. I’m just thrilled to bring you my world and I hope you’ve enjoyed. My readers … Continue reading →

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Power Exchange or Power Struggle in a D/s Relationship?

Posted on February 1, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I just finished the first book in a new collection called Power Exchange and working on the second, along with four other books no less. I was thinking as I worked on the character that the concept of a Power … Continue reading →

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Rules and Tethering Within a D/s Relationship

Posted on January 30, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I’ve blogged about rules before, but as I’ve written many blogs, stories and books etc. about melding a D/s relationship in with everyday life, I’ve been able to embrace the concept in a different manner. Plus, actually sharing a D/s … Continue reading →

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On Saying Goodbye…The End of a D/s Journey?

Posted on January 19, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Well, many of you are very aware I went though something in November that just about crushed the woman as well as the writer, let alone the submissive who in truth found an amazing Dom. You’ve heard to talk about … Continue reading →

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