Tag Archives: DD

Submitting to a Spanking…When Visiting Family and Friends

Posted on March 22, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I had to laugh yesterday because I hadn’t paid any attention to my blog. Then mid afternoon I looked and went ‘holy shit!’ because the views of my blog had doubled. Of course on the various blog sites you can … Continue reading →

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His Primary Submissive

Posted on December 28, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

A primary submissive. Think about the concept. What do these words really mean? This means the number one submissive in a polyamory household. There could be several submissives or slaves in a Master/slave lifestyle. You have heard of this occurring … Continue reading →

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Dominant or submissive…Will This Be With You Forever?

Posted on December 17, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Do you consider yourself dominant or more submissive in every aspect of your life? Think about the first time you really understood various personality traits you pushed out – determined to show those around you. Stop for a minute and … Continue reading →

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Spank Me…Just How Perfect Can a Spanking Be?

Posted on August 21, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

This one has been a long time coming. I wrote this piece in February 2013 after attending a sexy conference and for some very tasty reasons the idea just came to me. This is written as a partner to Spankdown … Continue reading →

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Corporal Punishment…Sexual Sin

Posted on July 10, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Punishment. Pain. Penance. The three ‘P’ words go together hand in hand quite often. I write many a blog as well as stories that include all three – together as well as separate. Penance is another word for punishment and … Continue reading →

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Pain…Sexual Sin Part IV

Posted on July 5, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Pain. The word continues to evoke so many emotions in my readers. When you add the question about whether I’m a masochist or John Patrick is a sadist and I seem to garner a brand new set of readers. Seems … Continue reading →

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Pain…Sexual Sin Part III

Posted on July 3, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Pain. Anguish. Anticipation. Excitement. These four words do so many things to my psyche. Not only do I continue to explore this with writing various D/s and DD pieces, but of course John Patrick and I are going through our … Continue reading →

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Enjoying the Pain…Always the Sadist?

Posted on June 28, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Pain and anguish – a darkness that lives within all of us. Yes, we all have the need to feel electrified, taken to a place few understand. This is part two of what has been an interesting blog. I think … Continue reading →

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On Mainstreaming Domination and submission

Posted on June 8, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Do you think the lifestyle of Domination and submission can ever become more mainstream, able to fit in and around the vanilla world with ease? Hmm… That’s my question for the day and I ask for a couple of reasons. … Continue reading →

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His Firm Hand…A Public Spanking V

Posted on June 1, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Jealousy  Okay yes I have this one subtitled. Jealousy exists whether we want to believe or not. Being in a D/s relationship on any level doesn’t preclude the existence either. While I accept and embrace the fact John Patrick probably … Continue reading →

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