Tag Archives: Dom

Deep Love vs Powerful Authority

Posted on September 13, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I had a vivid dream last night, one that actually kept me awake for a long time. I’d mentioned in my last blog that Cass was dead. Well, of course that’s not entirely true given I still have just about … Continue reading →

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Safe, Sane and Consensual

Posted on August 2, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

You’ve probably heard these words spread around with regards to BDSM at least once or twice. They’ve become in a sense the ‘buzzwords’ for understanding that playing with aspects of kink to living the lifestyle is about all three. As … Continue reading →

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Submissive vs Slave

Posted on December 12, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

In my previous blog I mentioned the concept there is a huge difference in being a submissive versus a slave. I’ve written about this before but in truth, I had no clue until truly delving into the lifestyle myself. I’m … Continue reading →

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A Vision of Stereotypes

Posted on November 2, 2013 by Cassandre Dayne

I was reminded very clearly this week not to EVER stereotype – not in my characters as I write or in the people I meet. You all know that I am very open and tell it like it is. I … Continue reading →

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Continuing into the D/s Lifestyle…Letting Go Physically

Posted on January 26, 2013 by Cassandre Dayne

In continuing my learning and blog experience about moving into and sharing the D/s lifestyle, we’ve talked quite a bit about the mentality and psychological aspects of the journey. There are so many phases from minute one including trust and … Continue reading →

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On Becoming A Good Dom…

Posted on June 20, 2012 by Cassandre Dayne

I know what some of you might be thinking – a very authoritative man. Hmmm… I think that’s what we all used to think and in my research for the On Becoming series, I’ve been lucky enough to not only … Continue reading →

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