Tag Archives: D/s

The Art of Control

Posted on April 2, 2016 by Cassandre Dayne

Control. What do you imagine when you think of the word and the meaning? What do you long for? Have you always wanted to take full control or succumb to letting go? Everyone is different. Intrinsic personal needs are something … Continue reading →

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Serving Her Master…the Effect of Social Media on the Relationship

Posted on October 25, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Social media is often the bane of my life. Yes, the culture is certainly here to stay, but I can tell you that the lack of direct human contact is often debilitating. We have so many sources out there to … Continue reading →

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Serving her Master…Complete Obedience

Posted on October 24, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Obedience. The word truly has interesting connotations. There’s really a simple definition. There are rules or laws that are required to be followed. Sounds easy enough. Right? Well, in a D/s, DD or M/s relationship, often this can be the … Continue reading →

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Serving Her Master

Posted on October 18, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Master. Does the word give you tingles and fill you with a gnawing in your gut, or do you groan and wonder how women (or men of course) could say the word to another human? Can you see yourself serving … Continue reading →

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Deep Love vs Powerful Authority

Posted on September 13, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I had a vivid dream last night, one that actually kept me awake for a long time. I’d mentioned in my last blog that Cass was dead. Well, of course that’s not entirely true given I still have just about … Continue reading →

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Discipline Therapy Within D/s

Posted on August 23, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I was scrolling through messages on my phone yesterday and an entry caught my eye. You may have heard of things like Boot Camp within the BDSM world. Discipline Therapy kinda caught me by surprise. What in the world does … Continue reading →

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Imagine the Perfect Submissive…

Posted on August 22, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

What lengths would you go to secure a lovely woman you could call your own? In the world of D/s, of course submissives are trained to follow orders, obey commands and they lovingly do so. What if you were shy … Continue reading →

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Submitting to a Spanking…Tantrums

Posted on August 15, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Tantrums. You think about this with regard to children. They don’t understand rules early on and fight when they don’t get their way. I’m certainly annoyed as hell when I have to endure this kind of behavior in a restaurant … Continue reading →

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Safe, Sane and Consensual

Posted on August 2, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

You’ve probably heard these words spread around with regards to BDSM at least once or twice. They’ve become in a sense the ‘buzzwords’ for understanding that playing with aspects of kink to living the lifestyle is about all three. As … Continue reading →

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Advice From a Dom

Posted on July 26, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Advice. I think we all need some on a regular basis. Some of us have mentors in our professions or perhaps while we were in school. He or she can give credence to issues or simply tell their story while … Continue reading →

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