Tag Archives: His Control

Opening Up to Others about a D/s Relationship

Do you feel free about telling everyone what you enjoy, what you crave in your life? Do you feel confident enough letting everyone know who you really are? If you’re involved in a D/s relationship, have you told your family … Continue reading

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Power Exchange = Sadistic Need in a D/s Relationship?

Sadism. I think for those who haven’t studied or lived the lifestyle, sadism is often equated with abuse. Certainly there are many situations in which abuse could occur, but in my experience with JP, I’ve come to realize his sadistic … Continue reading

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Sir Voicing a Command

You will obey me. You will honor my needs. You will give me everything I desire. Think about the hottest actor you know, the man whispering these words, the gruff tone of his voice skittering across your quivering skin. Imagine … Continue reading

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Power Exchange – Taken Part II

In my exploration of a power exchange over the last couple of years, I’ve learned a lot about men and women. We are vastly different in our view and needs at time. Then again, we’re all looking for some level … Continue reading

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Submissive or Slave…What is the Difference?

A lot of the books I write are based on alternative lifestyles. Any of you who know me realize I write about BDSM, Domination/submission, Domestic Discipline, gay and lesbian, interracial and ménage. I also write what some consider very traditional … Continue reading

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