Tag Archives: His Firm Hand

Sexual Sin – Penance

Posted on February 13, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Well, this is my 1000th blog. I have to say I’m shocked I’ve written so many. Much like my books, you can tell I’m prolific. I’m just thrilled to bring you my world and I hope you’ve enjoyed. My readers … Continue reading →

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Power Exchange = Sadistic Need in a D/s Relationship?

Posted on February 4, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Sadism. I think for those who haven’t studied or lived the lifestyle, sadism is often equated with abuse. Certainly there are many situations in which abuse could occur, but in my experience with JP, I’ve come to realize his sadistic … Continue reading →

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Rules and Tethering Within a D/s Relationship

Posted on January 30, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I’ve blogged about rules before, but as I’ve written many blogs, stories and books etc. about melding a D/s relationship in with everyday life, I’ve been able to embrace the concept in a different manner. Plus, actually sharing a D/s … Continue reading →

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His Firm Hand

Posted on January 29, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I’m going to help you, guide you. I’m going to give you everything you’ve hungered for. I’m going to give you my firm hand. His firm hand. These three little words are some of the most searched on the Internet … Continue reading →

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Breaking Through the Walls of D/s

Posted on January 21, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

As you might imagine, I’m very reflective today. The novella I wrote about my love and times of sorrow with John Patrick is coming out in a few hours. Suffering in Silence…On Saying Goodbye is very telling. The realization of … Continue reading →

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A Dom’s Control

Posted on January 17, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

After several recent and very intense conversations about the sadism within a D/s relationship, I’ve reflected on something JP said. He always talks about his concern whether he is Domly enough. I have a new twitter follower, a Master, who … Continue reading →

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Dear God…Just Spank Me!

Posted on January 16, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Hmmm – have  you ever said THAT before? I highly doubt most of you have said anything of this nature – well, maybe in play time only. Right? What I can tell you that some of us – hint, hint…you … Continue reading →

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Silence + D/s = Torture

Posted on December 7, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

I think everyone who’s read my blog knows what I’ve been going through so I’m not belaboring the point. While the healing process has been stalled for now, I’m not quite as much of a hot mess. As the majority … Continue reading →

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The Art of a Hard Spanking…The One Thing…

Posted on September 14, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Did you ever hear the line from a very famous movie ‘There’s just one thing’? What does that mean? Well, in City Slickers (yep, I am dating myself here) Billy Crystal made certain his buddies knew the one thing that … Continue reading →

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Pain…Sexual Sin Part III

Posted on July 3, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Pain. Anguish. Anticipation. Excitement. These four words do so many things to my psyche. Not only do I continue to explore this with writing various D/s and DD pieces, but of course John Patrick and I are going through our … Continue reading →

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