Tag Archives: His Firm Hand

Sexual Sin – Penance

Well, this is my 1000th blog. I have to say I’m shocked I’ve written so many. Much like my books, you can tell I’m prolific. I’m just thrilled to bring you my world and I hope you’ve enjoyed. My readers … Continue reading

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Power Exchange = Sadistic Need in a D/s Relationship?

Sadism. I think for those who haven’t studied or lived the lifestyle, sadism is often equated with abuse. Certainly there are many situations in which abuse could occur, but in my experience with JP, I’ve come to realize his sadistic … Continue reading

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Rules and Tethering Within a D/s Relationship

I’ve blogged about rules before, but as I’ve written many blogs, stories and books etc. about melding a D/s relationship in with everyday life, I’ve been able to embrace the concept in a different manner. Plus, actually sharing a D/s … Continue reading

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His Firm Hand

I’m going to help you, guide you. I’m going to give you everything you’ve hungered for. I’m going to give you my firm hand. His firm hand. These three little words are some of the most searched on the Internet … Continue reading

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Breaking Through the Walls of D/s

As you might imagine, I’m very reflective today. The novella I wrote about my love and times of sorrow with John Patrick is coming out in a few hours. Suffering in Silence…On Saying Goodbye is very telling. The realization of … Continue reading

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A Dom’s Control

After several recent and very intense conversations about the sadism within a D/s relationship, I’ve reflected on something JP said. He always talks about his concern whether he is Domly enough. I have a new twitter follower, a Master, who … Continue reading

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Dear God…Just Spank Me!

Hmmm – have  you ever said THAT before? I highly doubt most of you have said anything of this nature – well, maybe in play time only. Right? What I can tell you that some of us – hint, hint…you … Continue reading

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