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A Submissive’s Pledge

Honor. Obey. These are two tiny words that mean so very much. When you throw in trust, patience, and submission, another picture might be formed in your mind’s eye. For couples who enter into marriage, there’s a pledge toward one … Continue reading

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A Man’s Journey into Becoming a Dominant…Trust

Do you love your Dom or your submissive? You might adore them so much you can’t breathe and the joy in sharing the amazing journey becomes an incredible affirmation. I’m not certain I can place the experience into words. Love … Continue reading

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Serving Your Dom…When Vanilla Life Takes Precedence

Life can be a bit daunting at times. Don’t you think? Okay, the truth is, life can be a pain in the ass. Between work, trying to make ends meet, family requirements and the daily struggles of basic necessities, we … Continue reading

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Continuing in a D/s Lifestyle…Dealing with Mental Anguish

Is there anguish in a D/s relationship? Of course there is. I don’t know of any relationship in which one or the other partner doesn’t suffer from bouts of anxiety or actual moments of raw depression. I’ve talked about John … Continue reading

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Opening Up to Others about a D/s Relationship

Do you feel free about telling everyone what you enjoy, what you crave in your life? Do you feel confident enough letting everyone know who you really are? If you’re involved in a D/s relationship, have you told your family … Continue reading

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Continued Discussions About Polyamory

I ran across a Fetlife discussion regarding polyamory and I had to admit I thought both the questions and the answers around them were well very thought out. I think there are as many misnomers about a polyamory life as … Continue reading

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“Goodbye Agony”…The Ultimate Letting Go in a D/s Relationship

Many of you know how much I love music. In fact, I can’t go a day without listening at work, in the car and when I write to some pretty heady metal music. I have various artists who push my … Continue reading

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Trust, Respect, Honor & Love = D/s

BDSM is merely a platform for abuse? Really? This is another bunch of hogwash, based on ignorance of a lifestyle. You always assume the worst when you don’t know the situation. Right? Turns my stomach still today. I’m very much … Continue reading

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The Scent of His Belt…

Few may know I also write poems – many of course revolving around D/s relationships. Of course many are about my relationship with JP, the amazing yet sometimes difficult times we share. I’ve written poetry since I was five – … Continue reading

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On Becoming a Submissive Part II – Acceptance

I was looking at my WordPress stats this past weekend and noticed a blog that continues to be one of the most read. The title? On Becoming a Submissive. For those of you who know my writing, you realize that … Continue reading

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