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Domestic Discipline…Based in Christianity?

Good question. What do you believe? As many of you know, I write quite a lot about spanking, including pieces regarding Domestic Discipline and D/s (Domination and submission). I’ve been highly criticized lately by those who seem to forget that … Continue reading

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Trust, Respect, Honor & Love = D/s

BDSM is merely a platform for abuse? Really? This is another bunch of hogwash, based on ignorance of a lifestyle. You always assume the worst when you don’t know the situation. Right? Turns my stomach still today. I’m very much … Continue reading

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The Great Fifty Shades Debate – Is BDSM and D/s Abuse?

Let me ask you a few questions. Do you believe the D/s lifestyle or BDSM glorifies the abuse of women? Do you believe it debases women’s equality? Do you believe that the concept of a man controlling a woman means … Continue reading

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What is Love? Wine & Roses or Lust & Pain?

What does love mean to you as a person and as a couple? Do you need a man to shower you with roses, wine and other trinkets? Do you have a penchant for pain, longing for his firm hand in … Continue reading

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Pain, Lust, Love, Sex…

As you can probably tell, I’ve been writing and editing today given the title. I have a brand new collection titled Power Exchange and the pieces move into dub con (dubious consent). Yes, this is the latest craze in stories … Continue reading

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Breaking Through the Walls of D/s

As you might imagine, I’m very reflective today. The novella I wrote about my love and times of sorrow with John Patrick is coming out in a few hours. Suffering in Silence…On Saying Goodbye is very telling. The realization of … Continue reading

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Passion, Romance & Domination

When you think of a D/s relationship, what are the thoughts that flow into your mind? Do you imagine flowers and candlelight, soft music and wine? Or do you imagine shackles and floggers? Can passion and a D/s relationship go … Continue reading

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Reflections on Trust

Trust is a very powerful word with friendships, family, vanilla relationships and especially within the BDSM community. In order to fully embrace a DD, D/s or M/s lifestyle, you have to absolutely trust your partner one thousand percent. Recently I’ve … Continue reading

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And So It’s Done

My heart is broken in ways I can’t fathom tonight nor can I stop crying. John Patrick, the absolute love of my life is no longer in my life. I suspected this sadness would happen and prayed in my own … Continue reading

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Suffering in Silence

Question: How does silence affect a D/s Relationship? Answer? Significantly Silence is not always golden. As many of you have read, I’ve been going through some tough times lately and they continue. I’m fairly empty inside and even the joy … Continue reading

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