Tag Archives: M/s

The Art of Control

Posted on April 2, 2016 by Cassandre Dayne

Control. What do you imagine when you think of the word and the meaning? What do you long for? Have you always wanted to take full control or succumb to letting go? Everyone is different. Intrinsic personal needs are something … Continue reading →

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Serving Her Master

Posted on October 18, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Master. Does the word give you tingles and fill you with a gnawing in your gut, or do you groan and wonder how women (or men of course) could say the word to another human? Can you see yourself serving … Continue reading →

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Safe, Sane and Consensual

Posted on August 2, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

You’ve probably heard these words spread around with regards to BDSM at least once or twice. They’ve become in a sense the ‘buzzwords’ for understanding that playing with aspects of kink to living the lifestyle is about all three. As … Continue reading →

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A Submissive’s Pledge

Posted on May 16, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Honor. Obey. These are two tiny words that mean so very much. When you throw in trust, patience, and submission, another picture might be formed in your mind’s eye. For couples who enter into marriage, there’s a pledge toward one … Continue reading →

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A Man’s Journey into Becoming a Dominant…Passion

Posted on April 26, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

 Can he or she be the love of your life? Can or should you share vanilla romance? The answer to all three is that it simply depends on the kind of relationship you share. For me? I could never trust … Continue reading →

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When the Hunter Becomes the Hunted

Posted on February 22, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Some of you are aware I have many sides, both as a woman and as an author. I love penning pieces about D/s relationships and spanking, aspects of BDSM including poems highlighting my personal journey. I also love writing dark … Continue reading →

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Dominant or submissive…Will This Be With You Forever?

Posted on December 17, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Do you consider yourself dominant or more submissive in every aspect of your life? Think about the first time you really understood various personality traits you pushed out – determined to show those around you. Stop for a minute and … Continue reading →

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Submissive vs Slave

Posted on December 12, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

In my previous blog I mentioned the concept there is a huge difference in being a submissive versus a slave. I’ve written about this before but in truth, I had no clue until truly delving into the lifestyle myself. I’m … Continue reading →

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The Man Behind the Mask…The Perfect Dom

Posted on December 12, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Is there such a thing as a perfect Dom? Let’s face it, there is no ‘perfect’ anything, but as far as traits of a Dom a submissive can not only trust, but love and respect, there are certain attributes. Every … Continue reading →

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Reflections on Trust

Posted on December 4, 2014 by Cassandre Dayne

Trust is a very powerful word with friendships, family, vanilla relationships and especially within the BDSM community. In order to fully embrace a DD, D/s or M/s lifestyle, you have to absolutely trust your partner one thousand percent. Recently I’ve … Continue reading →

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