Tag Archives: Obedience

Serving her Master…Complete Obedience

Posted on October 24, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Obedience. The word truly has interesting connotations. There’s really a simple definition. There are rules or laws that are required to be followed. Sounds easy enough. Right? Well, in a D/s, DD or M/s relationship, often this can be the … Continue reading →

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Continuing in a D/s Lifestyle…Dealing with Mental Anguish

Posted on March 28, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Is there anguish in a D/s relationship? Of course there is. I don’t know of any relationship in which one or the other partner doesn’t suffer from bouts of anxiety or actual moments of raw depression. I’ve talked about John … Continue reading →

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Hiding in Plain Sight While Living in a D/s Relationship

Posted on March 25, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Do you hide portions of your life, even from yourself? Do you fear confiding in your best friend or lover about a secret desire, one he or she might think far too kinky or worse? I think we all do. … Continue reading →

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Submitting to a Spanking…When Visiting Family and Friends

Posted on March 22, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I had to laugh yesterday because I hadn’t paid any attention to my blog. Then mid afternoon I looked and went ‘holy shit!’ because the views of my blog had doubled. Of course on the various blog sites you can … Continue reading →

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Hiding Behind a Mask of Sin

Posted on March 19, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Do you think engaging in various acts of BDSM, longing to be whipped, or having a desire for someone other than your spouse is a sin? Do you crave one or all? Be honest. I know, you’d hide everything about … Continue reading →

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Is the Need for BDSM or a D/s Relationship Innate or a Choice?

Posted on March 15, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

This is a very good question in my mind and a conversation I had with John Patrick the other day. He has pushed back against his “dark” needs twice now over the last few months and I had to stop … Continue reading →

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“Goodbye Agony”…The Ultimate Letting Go in a D/s Relationship

Posted on February 28, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Many of you know how much I love music. In fact, I can’t go a day without listening at work, in the car and when I write to some pretty heady metal music. I have various artists who push my … Continue reading →

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A Dom’s Complex Needs in Sadism and Vanilla

Posted on February 23, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

The concept about abuse is still buzzing regarding the D/s and M/s community. I continue to cringe every time I read a rather stupid comment on Facebook. However, I realize the Fifty Shades movie shows you one side of a … Continue reading →

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Are D/s Relationships More Honest?

Posted on February 18, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

As I sit here after what is considered a major snowstorm in Virginia, I was able to spend a little time talking to some folks on Facebook. A very interesting comment was made to me today from someone who’d recently … Continue reading →

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The Myths and Truths Behind BDSM

Posted on February 16, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

First of all let me say I’m not expert in anything, especially BDSM. I’m a novice at best in the lifestyle, having only explored various aspects. However as an author, I’m done my homework. That still doesn’t make me any … Continue reading →

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