Tag Archives: Ownership

Hiding in Plain Sight While Living in a D/s Relationship

Do you hide portions of your life, even from yourself? Do you fear confiding in your best friend or lover about a secret desire, one he or she might think far too kinky or worse? I think we all do. … Continue reading

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Power Exchange = Sadistic Need in a D/s Relationship?

Sadism. I think for those who haven’t studied or lived the lifestyle, sadism is often equated with abuse. Certainly there are many situations in which abuse could occur, but in my experience with JP, I’ve come to realize his sadistic … Continue reading

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Apocalyptic Love, Sex, Handprints, Chaining, Owning = RED

Red. My favorite color in clothing, lingerie and the perfume I wear. Yes, Giorgio has a cologne called ‘RED’. The delicious fragrance suits my personality, bold and bodacious. Hence my Fetlife name. Oddly enough, you can no longer purchase in … Continue reading

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Sir Voicing a Command

You will obey me. You will honor my needs. You will give me everything I desire. Think about the hottest actor you know, the man whispering these words, the gruff tone of his voice skittering across your quivering skin. Imagine … Continue reading

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Ownership in a D/s Relationship

You belong to me. I own you. No one else will ever have you. You will obey me. Ownership. Obedience. Those two words give me the shivers. What do the two very powerful words bring to your mind? In reading … Continue reading

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Living in a D/s Relationship…Full Time

Within a D/s relationship there are many dynamics. Couples often find themselves in a quandary bridging the vanilla lifestyle with what some feel to be a very powerful alternative method. We’ve talked about various aspects of co-mingling various parameters such … Continue reading

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Sexual Sin…Personal Slave Auction

I mentioned the other night in my blog that there are various kinky aspects of sharing couples involved in the lifestyle can partake in. If you read the previous episode, you know that John Patrick and I had a very … Continue reading

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Sexual Sin…The Watchers

Humiliation – shame, dishonor, discredit – the meaning is clear. For some reason the very thought is highly appealing to so many people – whether we want to admit this or not. Having someone watching us, seeing our dirty deeds, … Continue reading

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Sexual Sin…Corporal Punishment IV

Pushing the envelope. Bridging the edge. Taking another step into the dark side of kink. All of these thoughts make me wet and hot. In my every day life I shove hard against the machine. I’m assertive bordering on aggressive. … Continue reading

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A Lesson in Becoming His…

This D/s journey – wow. Few words can actually describe the way I feel. I penned On Becoming His over two years ago – my very personal thoughts about what I needed, what I hoped I’d find burning on the … Continue reading

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