Tag Archives: Pain

Craving Pain

Do you think some of us crave pain, find the need to experience what some consider a heightened level of sensations? There are many who do. On the other side there are those who desire to inflict pain, “get off” … Continue reading

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Afraid of the Darkness

Well, my life is taking a not so happy turn again and I’m absolutely empty at this point. John Patrick and I are on another ugly level. There are several reasons I don’t want to get into, but I’m not … Continue reading

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The Myths and Truths Behind BDSM

First of all let me say I’m not expert in anything, especially BDSM. I’m a novice at best in the lifestyle, having only explored various aspects. However as an author, I’m done my homework. That still doesn’t make me any … Continue reading

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What is Love? Wine & Roses or Lust & Pain?

What does love mean to you as a person and as a couple? Do you need a man to shower you with roses, wine and other trinkets? Do you have a penchant for pain, longing for his firm hand in … Continue reading

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Pain, Lust, Love, Sex…

As you can probably tell, I’ve been writing and editing today given the title. I have a brand new collection titled Power Exchange and the pieces move into dub con (dubious consent). Yes, this is the latest craze in stories … Continue reading

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Domination and submission = Abuse? Part III

Well there wasn’t going to be a part three to this series but certain things occurred that reminded me there are so many misnomers to pretty much everything about a D/s, M/s, BDSM or even a DD lifestyle. The basic … Continue reading

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Guiding a Submissive…the Dom’s POV…Pleasure & Pain

Guidance. I think we can all agree we either need or have required some level of guidance in the past. Whether in our childhood when our parents and teachers were the positive influences or college professors and our first or … Continue reading

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