Tag Archives: Rules

Serving Your Dom…When Vanilla Life Takes Precedence

Life can be a bit daunting at times. Don’t you think? Okay, the truth is, life can be a pain in the ass. Between work, trying to make ends meet, family requirements and the daily struggles of basic necessities, we … Continue reading

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A Dom’s Complex Needs in Sadism and Vanilla

The concept about abuse is still buzzing regarding the D/s and M/s community. I continue to cringe every time I read a rather stupid comment on Facebook. However, I realize the Fifty Shades movie shows you one side of a … Continue reading

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A Dom’s Greatest Strength

What do you think is the Dom’s greatest strength, the most important attribute he can bring to a D/s journey? As you might imagine, there are potentially multiple answers including various combinations of what I call light and dark. I … Continue reading

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Rules and Tethering Within a D/s Relationship

I’ve blogged about rules before, but as I’ve written many blogs, stories and books etc. about melding a D/s relationship in with everyday life, I’ve been able to embrace the concept in a different manner. Plus, actually sharing a D/s … Continue reading

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Living Apart in a D/s Relationship…Rules, Rituals and Protocols

The three words probably evoke various thoughts and emotions depending on our lives, our relationships and the way we feel about obeying any of them. I’ve learned quite a bit over the last few months about each of the three, … Continue reading

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On Becoming a Submissive

For many of us, relationships are about complete equality. Whether you’re in a heterosexual or same sex relationship, generally both people have a job, bills to pay, friends and family to deal with and sometimes children to nurture. In the … Continue reading

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Spanking… A Lost Art or a New Fetish?

Well, there seems to be a lot of talk about spanking lately. I love the thought and I also strongly believe in the concept of domestic discipline. You know, spanking as a form of punishment for the infractions of rules … Continue reading

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