Tag Archives: Sadism

A Man’s Journey into Becoming a Dominant…Fears

Are men stronger than women emotionally? Hmm… My quick answer is not a chance. Why? Because many of them never learned or embraced the ability to open up completely with another human. Whether as a child they were told to … Continue reading

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Craving Pain

Do you think some of us crave pain, find the need to experience what some consider a heightened level of sensations? There are many who do. On the other side there are those who desire to inflict pain, “get off” … Continue reading

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Darkness, Beauty, Sin, Rage, Sex…

What do all of these have in common? For me, the realization you can mix raw emotions, dark hungers, intense sensations together is perhaps the most intriguing aspect of sexuality. Rage can bring a heightened level of passion, one spilling … Continue reading

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Power Exchange = Sadistic Need in a D/s Relationship?

Sadism. I think for those who haven’t studied or lived the lifestyle, sadism is often equated with abuse. Certainly there are many situations in which abuse could occur, but in my experience with JP, I’ve come to realize his sadistic … Continue reading

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A Dom’s Control

After several recent and very intense conversations about the sadism within a D/s relationship, I’ve reflected on something JP said. He always talks about his concern whether he is Domly enough. I have a new twitter follower, a Master, who … Continue reading

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The Art of Sadism and the Act of Being Taken

I’m certainly no expert on sadism or the flipside masochism. While I’ve been called many things in my life, including a pain slut, I’ve always written about the softer side of D/s instead of M/s. As I mentioned in an … Continue reading

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Enjoying the Pain…Always the Masochist?

CRACK! Do you cringe hearing the sound or wince if you see a belt? Well I do and I love the very feeling. A hard belting is good for the soul – right? Mmm… I have my opinion. I love … Continue reading

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