Tag Archives: Submissive

Safe, Sane and Consensual

You’ve probably heard these words spread around with regards to BDSM at least once or twice. They’ve become in a sense the ‘buzzwords’ for understanding that playing with aspects of kink to living the lifestyle is about all three. As … Continue reading

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A Hard Spanking…Pain or Pleasure?

In writing books that involve spanking, I try and showcase the fact there are various kinds – pleasure, enticement, foreplay, discipline, and punishment. I think there are a lot of people, whether readers or those involved in the Domestic Discipline … Continue reading

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A Dom’s Control

After several recent and very intense conversations about the sadism within a D/s relationship, I’ve reflected on something JP said. He always talks about his concern whether he is Domly enough. I have a new twitter follower, a Master, who … Continue reading

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Submissive vs Slave

In my previous blog I mentioned the concept there is a huge difference in being a submissive versus a slave. I’ve written about this before but in truth, I had no clue until truly delving into the lifestyle myself. I’m … Continue reading

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Respect in a Dominant/submissive Lifestyle

Admiration, Esteem, Revere – these are words often used in place of respect. They are powerful words, those that can evoke deep emotions. There are various forms of respect that you give, learn, care about or share. Within D/s, respect … Continue reading

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A Submissive Revealed

I’m often asked how I knew I was submissive and when did I admit and to whom. I had a wonderful reader ask me a great question as well. He mentioned his wife had recently revealed she desires to become … Continue reading

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Sexual Sin…Personal Slave Auction IV

Ten thousand dollars. Would you consider the amount decent pay for two hours of work? Is there any amount of money you’d exchange for sharing time with another Dom? As a Dom, would you barter your submissive for another – … Continue reading

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