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A Man’s Journey into Becoming a Dominant…Trust

Do you love your Dom or your submissive? You might adore them so much you can’t breathe and the joy in sharing the amazing journey becomes an incredible affirmation. I’m not certain I can place the experience into words. Love … Continue reading

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A Man’s Journey into Becoming a Dominant…Fears

Are men stronger than women emotionally? Hmm… My quick answer is not a chance. Why? Because many of them never learned or embraced the ability to open up completely with another human. Whether as a child they were told to … Continue reading

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“Goodbye Agony”…The Ultimate Letting Go in a D/s Relationship

Many of you know how much I love music. In fact, I can’t go a day without listening at work, in the car and when I write to some pretty heady metal music. I have various artists who push my … Continue reading

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Trust, Respect, Honor & Love = D/s

BDSM is merely a platform for abuse? Really? This is another bunch of hogwash, based on ignorance of a lifestyle. You always assume the worst when you don’t know the situation. Right? Turns my stomach still today. I’m very much … Continue reading

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Are D/s Relationships More Honest?

As I sit here after what is considered a major snowstorm in Virginia, I was able to spend a little time talking to some folks on Facebook. A very interesting comment was made to me today from someone who’d recently … Continue reading

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The Great Fifty Shades Debate – Is BDSM and D/s Abuse?

Let me ask you a few questions. Do you believe the D/s lifestyle or BDSM glorifies the abuse of women? Do you believe it debases women’s equality? Do you believe that the concept of a man controlling a woman means … Continue reading

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On Becoming a Submissive Part II – Acceptance

I was looking at my WordPress stats this past weekend and noticed a blog that continues to be one of the most read. The title? On Becoming a Submissive. For those of you who know my writing, you realize that … Continue reading

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Protocols Within a D/s Relationship

I’ve had some fairly lively discussions as of late with Sir as well as with writers and readers on Facebook. I think given the upcoming release of 50 Shades of… people are more interested in D/s relationships than ever. Of … Continue reading

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Reflections on Trust

Trust is a very powerful word with friendships, family, vanilla relationships and especially within the BDSM community. In order to fully embrace a DD, D/s or M/s lifestyle, you have to absolutely trust your partner one thousand percent. Recently I’ve … Continue reading

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And So It’s Done

My heart is broken in ways I can’t fathom tonight nor can I stop crying. John Patrick, the absolute love of my life is no longer in my life. I suspected this sadness would happen and prayed in my own … Continue reading

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