Author Archives: Cassandre Dayne

About Cassandre Dayne

Cassandre Dayne and DH Black are the pseudo's for the best selling author of erotic and paranormal romance, crime thrillers and horror novels

Hiding in Plain Sight While Living in a D/s Relationship

Do you hide portions of your life, even from yourself? Do you fear confiding in your best friend or lover about a secret desire, one he or she might think far too kinky or worse? I think we all do. … Continue reading

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Submitting to a Spanking…When Visiting Family and Friends

I had to laugh yesterday because I hadn’t paid any attention to my blog. Then mid afternoon I looked and went ‘holy shit!’ because the views of my blog had doubled. Of course on the various blog sites you can … Continue reading

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Submitting to a Spanking…the Perfect Time

Your behavior has been deplorable. I’m very disappointed in you. When I get home, I want you undressed, standing in the corner with your nose pressed to the wall, and several spanking implements on the table. Do you understand me? … Continue reading

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Hiding Behind a Mask of Sin

Do you think engaging in various acts of BDSM, longing to be whipped, or having a desire for someone other than your spouse is a sin? Do you crave one or all? Be honest. I know, you’d hide everything about … Continue reading

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Opening Up to Others about a D/s Relationship

Do you feel free about telling everyone what you enjoy, what you crave in your life? Do you feel confident enough letting everyone know who you really are? If you’re involved in a D/s relationship, have you told your family … Continue reading

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The Hunt

I seem to be in a rather dark and edgy place lately. There are various reasons why and for those of you who know me and have read the blogs, I think you have a general idea. When I’m stressed … Continue reading

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Is the Need for BDSM or a D/s Relationship Innate or a Choice?

This is a very good question in my mind and a conversation I had with John Patrick the other day. He has pushed back against his “dark” needs twice now over the last few months and I had to stop … Continue reading

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