Monthly Archives: January 2015

A Dom’s Greatest Strength

Posted on January 31, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

What do you think is the Dom’s greatest strength, the most important attribute he can bring to a D/s journey? As you might imagine, there are potentially multiple answers including various combinations of what I call light and dark. I … Continue reading →

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Rules and Tethering Within a D/s Relationship

Posted on January 30, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I’ve blogged about rules before, but as I’ve written many blogs, stories and books etc. about melding a D/s relationship in with everyday life, I’ve been able to embrace the concept in a different manner. Plus, actually sharing a D/s … Continue reading →

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His Firm Hand

Posted on January 29, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I’m going to help you, guide you. I’m going to give you everything you’ve hungered for. I’m going to give you my firm hand. His firm hand. These three little words are some of the most searched on the Internet … Continue reading →

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Apocalyptic Love, Sex, Handprints, Chaining, Owning = RED

Posted on January 28, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Red. My favorite color in clothing, lingerie and the perfume I wear. Yes, Giorgio has a cologne called ‘RED’. The delicious fragrance suits my personality, bold and bodacious. Hence my Fetlife name. Oddly enough, you can no longer purchase in … Continue reading →

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Sir Voicing a Command

Posted on January 27, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

You will obey me. You will honor my needs. You will give me everything I desire. Think about the hottest actor you know, the man whispering these words, the gruff tone of his voice skittering across your quivering skin. Imagine … Continue reading →

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Power Exchange…Taken Part IV

Posted on January 26, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Being taken – I think for most people they think negatively as in being taken on a deal or a purchase. The kind of ‘taken’ I’m talking about has everything to do with one person not only coercing but demanding … Continue reading →

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Protocols Within a D/s Relationship

Posted on January 24, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

I’ve had some fairly lively discussions as of late with Sir as well as with writers and readers on Facebook. I think given the upcoming release of 50 Shades of… people are more interested in D/s relationships than ever. Of … Continue reading →

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Punish Me

Posted on January 23, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Please punish me. I need a hard spanking… Oh those two little words tend to spark such thoughts in people. Whether you’re the spanker or the spankee, personally I think they’re delicious. I’ve posted many blogs about spanking and I … Continue reading →

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Power Exchange…Taken Part III

Posted on January 22, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

Well, I had an amazing conversation today that was filled with all levels of darkness, from wicked to absolutely depraved. And we’re not just talking about dirty talk either. The concept of kink was off the charts and very much a … Continue reading →

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Breaking Through the Walls of D/s

Posted on January 21, 2015 by Cassandre Dayne

As you might imagine, I’m very reflective today. The novella I wrote about my love and times of sorrow with John Patrick is coming out in a few hours. Suffering in Silence…On Saying Goodbye is very telling. The realization of … Continue reading →

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