Monthly Archives: September 2014

Discipline and Domination…Vanilla and Control

Ah the word vanilla. Try using that one in a relationship – especially D/s. What does that single word alone make you think of? For me it means traditional. I think of things like equal and family oriented, non kinky … Continue reading

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Discipline and Domination…Emotions and Drama

Answer me this question. Have you ever purposely cried to get out of a ticket? Perhaps that sexy cop you just knew you could cry or worse, throw a little sexiness his way in order to save your bacon? Well… … Continue reading

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Discipline and Domination…Servitude and Submission

I was inspired to write this blog for a couple of reasons. One, I had a lovely reader mention she was fearful her Dom was taking her good natured desires to please him in various ways for granted. Two, John … Continue reading

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Discipline and Domination…Challenging

Do you think a man is born a Dom? Are his tendencies there from the beginning? Good questions I think. I’ve talked with John Patrick about his thoughts. I’m his first D/s relationship and while I’ve shared some aspect before, … Continue reading

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The Art of a Hard Spanking…Dealing With Anger and Frustration

I know, I mentioned the last blog in the series was indeed the last, but a topic just burned to be discussed – anger and frustration. John Patrick and I discussed this just yesterday in some detail. Why? Well, we’ve … Continue reading

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The Art of a Hard Spanking…The One Thing…

Did you ever hear the line from a very famous movie ‘There’s just one thing’? What does that mean? Well, in City Slickers (yep, I am dating myself here) Billy Crystal made certain his buddies knew the one thing that … Continue reading

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The Art of a Hard Spanking…Balance and Whipping More than Just…

Spanking… How hard can your ass take the strike of a belt? What do you think about when you hear the single word? Well I think for the majority of people, we think about children misbehaving. Even then, spanking our … Continue reading

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